{"id":2874,"date":"2021-03-31T18:10:49","date_gmt":"2021-03-31T18:10:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sfdumitru.org\/?p=2874"},"modified":"2024-03-11T17:56:01","modified_gmt":"2024-03-11T17:56:01","slug":"youth-voice-iii-iv-2021","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sfdumitru.org\/ro\/2021\/03\/youth-voice-iii-iv-2021\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 mama pentru mine \u00een Canada?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dac\u0103 m-a\u0219 fi \u00eentrebat c\u00e2nd eram copil acela\u0219i lucru, probabil c\u0103 a\u0219 fi spus c\u0103 mama este omul bun la toate \u0219i mereu aproape. O luam de-a gata, ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd ea mi se cuvenea \u00een mod firesc cu totul, s\u0103 fie a mea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pun prea multe \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Uneori o vedeam ca pe o prieten\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleapt\u0103, care m\u0103 sf\u0103tuia \u0219i m\u0103 sus\u021binea \u00een tot \u0219i-n toate, fiind con\u0219tiin\u0163a mea permanent\u0103. Iar alteori o vedeam exigent\u0103, responsabil\u0103, u\u0219or exagerat\u0103, cea care \u00eemi rupea paginile din caietul dictando \u0219i m\u0103 punea s\u0103 refac bastona\u0219ele \u0219i liniu\u021bele gre\u0219ite p\u00e2n\u0103 erau toate aliniate perfect.<\/p>

Din copil\u0103rie p\u00e2n\u0103-n studen\u0163ie am v\u0103zut-o pe mama ca pe un pilon de sprijin. Omul care s-a angajat t\u0103cut s\u0103 ne iubeasc\u0103, s\u0103 ne \u00eengrijeasc\u0103, s\u0103 ne creasc\u0103, s\u0103 ne educe \u0219i s\u0103 ne dea drumul \u00een lume. \u00cens\u0103 realizez c\u0103 toat\u0103 via\u0163a am v\u0103zut-o pe mama doar din profil. I-am v\u0103zut doar o parte din um\u0103r, o parte din ochi, o parte din suflet, o parte din ea. I-am v\u0103zut doar bucata cunoscut\u0103 a existen\u0163ei mele, \u00eentr-un mod pu\u021bin profund sau ad\u00e2ncit. Niciodat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t. Niciodat\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103, a\u0219 putea spune. Nu \u00eemi amintesc s\u0103 o fi \u00eentrebat cum a reu\u0219it s\u0103 fac\u0103 omul care sunt ast\u0103zi. Nu re\u021bin s\u0103 m\u0103 fi preocupat c\u00e2te ore a dormit pe noapte, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i mai vede capul de treburi, dac\u0103 ar vrea \u0219i ea o pauz\u0103. \u0218i dac\u0103 am \u00eentrebat sau m-au preocupat cele pomenite nu am \u00een\u021beles c\u00e2tu\u0219i de pu\u021bin nevoile ei. P\u00e2n\u0103 acum. Abia \u00een momentul de fa\u0163\u0103, cand vie\u021bile noastre s-au schimbat la 180 de grade, mut\u00e2ndu-ne \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103, av\u00e2nd noi prieteni, vorbind o nou\u0103 limb\u0103, fiind \u00eenconjura\u021bi de oameni str\u0103ini f\u0103r\u0103 tradi\u021biile \u0219i obiceiurile noastre rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti, \u00eencep s\u0103 o v\u0103d pe de-a-ntregul. Abia acum mi se \u00eenfirip\u0103 \u00een minte imagini pe care pot s\u0103 le cunosc sau s\u0103 le b\u0103nuiesc. Abia acum reu\u0219esc s\u0103 p\u0103trund \u00een chintesen\u0163a cuv\u00e2ntului. Dorul \u0219i mintea care stau constant la cei de acas\u0103, g\u00e2ndurile \u0219i amintirile pe care ai vrea s\u0103 le tr\u0103ie\u0219ti din nou sau s\u0103 le po\u021bi \u00eenlocui \u00eenseamn\u0103 sute de g\u00e2nduri pe minut, mii de \u00eendoieli, griji infinite, care te macin\u0103 vr\u00e2nd-nevr\u00e2nd. \u00censeamn\u0103 fericire, pace \u0219i zbucium concomitent, curaj \u0219i putere. \u00cen ciuda tuturor acestor g\u00e2nduri \u0219i sentimente, singurul prieten \u00ee\u021bi este mama.<\/p>

Venirea mea \u00een Canada ca adolescent\u0103 a fost o perioad\u0103 foarte grea din via\u021b\u0103 pe care nu o voi uita niciodat\u0103. \u00cen aceasta perioad\u0103 am redescoperit iubirea fa\u021b\u0103 de mama, grija \u0219i durerea. Am redescoperit c\u0103 eu sunt copia fidel\u0103 a sa \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u00e2nd c\u0103 mama \u021bine locul fiec\u0103rei persoane care \u00ee\u021bi lipse\u0219te \u0219i c\u0103 nimic mai scump pe aceast\u0103 lume nu este \u00een afar\u0103 de prezen\u021ba \u0219i de dragostea mamei. De un an \u0219i 8 luni, admir din ce \u00een ce mai mult mamele din jurul meu sau pe cele \u00een devenire. Mi se par a fi amazoane desprinse din mitologia greac\u0103 \u0219i aduse \u00een modernism, ascunse sub haine banale \u0219i farduri fistichii. Or, inimile lor sunt de femei r\u0103zboinice, de nest\u0103vilit, care se declan\u0219eaz\u0103 ori de c\u00e2te ori \u00ee\u0219i simt copiii \u00een pericol.<\/p>

Dincolo de cadourile pe care vrem s\u0103 le oferim mamelor noastre \u00een aceast\u0103 lun\u0103 martie, nimeni nu se g\u00e2nde\u0219te c\u0103 poate mama nu are nevoie de cadourile cump\u0103rate \u0219i de florile care sunt \u00eembucur\u0103toare c\u00e2teva zile, ci de prezen\u021ba noastr\u0103, a copiilor s\u0103i, de iubirea \u0219i de fericirea emanat\u0103 de noi \u00een fiecare zi \u00een prezen\u021ba ei \u0219i \u00een societate.S\u0103-i oferim ceea ce ast\u0103zi suntem. \u0218i f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 toate mamele care \u00ee\u0219i iubesc copiii mai mult dec\u00e2t inima din piept simt \u0219i g\u00e2ndesc acela\u0219i lucru: copilul este darul lor etern \u0219i cel mai de pre\u021b. Pentru toat\u0103 via\u0163a, nu doar de 8 Martie. Iar iubirea \u0219i fericirea din ochii lor compenseaz\u0103 toate sacrificiile din lumea de mam\u0103. A\u0219adar, la mul\u0163i ani, mame dragi! Sunte\u021bi minunate!<\/p>

Cu drag,<\/em>
Alexandra Ioana Geonea<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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